Psycho

http://ideaspots.com/5-things-sociopaths-narcissists-say-make-feel-crazy/

She's nuts. But he's crazy for her. 🙁

Smashed

He schmucked my car - HARD - in the driveway a couple weeks ago.  Though I don't think he did it on purpose, he has been very lax about taking control to fix it. In fact he has done sweet diddly all to even try to make amends let alone get it fixed.

My car is now worth next to nothing. I'm sure insurance will write it off and make my son's insurance go through the roof for years! Stupid me, I thought "let's make it easier on him. Let's find the easiest cheapest solution for HIM". So I researched the insurance, I got quotes form a body shop, I called wreckers up and down the Island to look for the best source for parts, I researched replacement s for my car... 

Does he appreciate it? Hard to tell.

Did he help? Fat chance.

Would he engage in a dialogue about what would be best for both of us? Nope. He avoided talking about it as though he had no part in the destruction or inconvenience at all!

WTF!

My brain hurts. My car is mangled, my heart is broken and I get nothing. A sad, quiet little "Sorry about your car mom" after dad had to talk to him.

I'm not the first mother to go through this, and I know it could be so much worse, but that doesn't mean I have to like it! 

After all I worked hard for that car, I worked hard to keep it looking nice. Now it looks like a POS. And trying to get money from him to fix it will be like blood from a stone.